Don't believe everything you think
So it is safe to say it is not a good idea to turn you back on this one?
Apparently, not biting the hand that's been feeding you does not cover when that same hand is shoving you violently, I mean gently into a box. Since he's back we're buds again. He lets me pet him with my now infected hands. He's probably laughing at me, "Kicked YOUR ASS MF!"
So it's tough love.
You're a good person, Silliyak.I used to feed an abandoned cat, and I miss her now that she seems to have passed away. I never got to the point where I could pet her (I found out the story from neighbors that a catowner had moved away years before and left about 7 cats, homeless, behind, and this was the last of that group of abandoned pets).
Good news! It's only been 3 weeks and I was able to get my wedding ring on for the first time last night! More importantly, the cat seems healthy and happy.